Maine Families CUES Messaging
Maine Families CUES Messaging
Confidentiality, Universal Education and Empowerment, Safer Supports Guiding Principles:
Home visitation is a dynamic, innovative model grounded in perspective taking, attunement and authenticity among a myriad of other elements.
Each family is unique. Each relationship is unique. While there are universal tools to be shared with all families, the way they are shared is through the authentic relationship between family and visitor.
CUES was adopted by Maine Families to support the goals of home visitation and provide templates for communicating with families about how to reduce isolation and safely get help to address domestic violence. Visitors can adapt the specific language of the scripts and texts to their individual voice and style.
Context:
Context:
The intention of CUES is to enhance the work that visitors are already doing with families. All of the work in Maine Families is based in the relationships that are created with the families served. The CUES approach is intended to be embedded in the conversations that visitors are already having with families and to create opportunities for a family to tell their visitor if they feel unsafe. It is a strategy for addressing safety that is effective when it is combined with what the visitor already knows about a family and their professional judgment as a visitor.
Visitors should be cautious when using the words 'domestic violence' with families. Some people may think domestic violence only refers to physical violence, not all the other ways in which power and control happen in a relationship that affect well-being, parenting, safety, coping and stress. Consider using proxy language such as "complicated relationships," "stressed relationships," "struggles in relationships," or "all relationships have their struggles" to understand where your client is in their relationship and understanding of its impact on their own well-being. Using the words they use to describe their relationship and situation with a partner will demonstrate attunement with them. Our goal is to reduce feelings of isolation, help them know it's ok to talk about these kinds of situations, and open the door for them to go further with discussions when they choose.
In addition to introducing two hundred eleven as a universal resource, we encourage each site to reach out to local domestic violence organization to understand what supports are available for participants who may disclose risk factors or are interested in receiving support.
To better understand the resources we provide to families, Visitors should call two hundred eleven to learn what families will experience when they use the resource and can describe it to their clients. The website two hundred eleven maine dot org is available in over one hundred languages, and other language services may be available for phone calls. Staff should learn what information the two hundred eleven operators would give a client if they said they were struggling in a complicated relationship and ask about a direct referral from two hundred eleven to alternate hotlines such as suicide prevention or domestic violence hotlines.